If you’ve ever been cheated on, you’ll know how painful it is to discover your partner is being unfaithful – whether you get a tip-off from a friend, find a clue on their phone, or catch them in the act.
But one woman’s experience with her cheating boyfriend was very different to most, as she claims to have discovered a unique and “embarrassing” pattern in the messages he was sending to a staggering 85 different women on Tinder.
Tori, who posts on TikTok under the username @self.timer.tori, revealed that while her boyfriend was putting in work to try and see someone else behind her back, not a single woman was interested in taking him up on his offer.
In a video that has gone viral with over 900,000 views, Tori, who is from the US, explained: “What’s more embarrassing and honestly heartbreaking than going through your man’s phone to find out he’s cheating on you?
“It’s going through your man’s phone to find out that he can’t cheat on you.
“Going through your man’s phone to find out that he is trying and actively failing to cheat on you is a shame and embarrassment I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.”
Tori admitted she’d initially been moved to tears by the thought of her boyfriend being unfaithful, but found his inability to find “one single girl” to cheat on her with so embarrassing that she dumped him on the spot.
She added: “He is out here trying. He is out here putting the energy and the time in. He is looking for one single girl to give him the time of day. But he is so cringey and so ugly, and the pictures he chose for his profile are so embarrassing that he can’t get one single b***h.
“And yet here you are stressing yourself out and going through his phone and crying about him when he couldn’t even cheat on you if he tried.
“The shame. Never again.”
The woman also captioned the video: “Just 85 outgoing ‘Hey’ Tinder messages.”
And commenters on the video were sympathetic to Tori’s situation, as many women admitted they’d been in similar situations themselves.
One person wrote: “This was my ex-husband. He tried so hard. One girl responded to him ‘Bro, look at your wife and then look in the mirror’. We’re friends now.”
While another said: “Girl, I caught my ex getting rejected in the DM’s so many times. It’s so much worse than the girls actually wanting him.”
And a third added: “I found stuff like this on my ex’s phone, and when I broke up with him he was like, ‘I didn’t cheat on you!’. Like yeah, because no one wanted you.”