1. Ladies WANT these 7 things to orgasm easily
If you have experienced real, making-you-go-weak-in-your-knees orgasm even once in your life, you know how disappointing it is to fake it during one of your sexual escapades. While we have all heard about the fancy tricks and trips to make a woman go gushing, ultimately it all boils down to the basics.
2. The Big O
First things first, it is essential for the partner of the opposite gender to understand that the bodies of men and women are made differently. Hence, the age-old approach towards woman orgasm also needs to be addressed and changed. Fret not, we have rounded up 7 things you need to do in the bed, in order to make your woman experience the Big O and stop faking it. Thank us later.
3. Foreplay
This one is a no-brainer. If your idea of getting hot and heavy in the bed is diving straight to the point, be rest assured that your lady is simply not enjoying it. We often think of the penetrative sex as the main dish and foreplay as the appetizers, however, it should be the other way around.
Tip: Spend some time around her earlobes, back of her neck and down the shoulders, the border around her lips, the collar bones etc.
4. Compliment her
Yes, compliments before, during and even after the main deed is done, act as a big turn on. Tell her how you feel, how beautiful you think she is and how you are enjoying it. Anything that really touches her might actually turn into a hot and heavy session part 2.
5. Get your mouth moving
If your partner is a woman, learn to cleverly use your mouth to give her the maximum pleasure. Infact, according to a study published in the Journal of Sex Research, women said that their best orgasms came from oral sex.
6. Communication
Yes, instead of moving your fingers and lips around mindlessly, pause and ask your lady whether she likes it or not. Pay compliments when she does something that turns you on, observe what you are doing and observe whether she likes it or not. Show your excitement by communicating with her and no, we are not talking about only moaning.
7. Don’t be judgmental
This one is obvious enough to not be on the list but still many partners get awkward with unflattering angles. Assure her and make her feel comfortable because sex isn’t exactly pleasurable when you are constantly worried about whether your partner is judging your body and your imperfections.
8. ​Kiss everywhere
Kiss is a sensual and deeply pleasurable act, so why limit it just to the face and lips? Plant wild kisses all over her body, from the toes to the pinnacle of head and see the magic happening.
9. ​Cuddling (After sex)
After you are done having sex, don’t just roll over and sleep. Sweep in the lady in your arms and hold her close. When a woman shares a deeply intimate moment with you, it is important that you give it some time to settle in, instead of simply moving on with your day.
Foreplay and cuddling are part of the whole process. We cannot really stress enough on this one.