Is your partner making grand gestures? Beware! He might just be a serial dater
Serial daters are people who are usually way too addicted to having an upper hand or simply very afraid of facing rejection. Oftentimes, it’s a little bit of both. And this fear of rejection is so real that the person will in fact reject you before you could have the chance to reject them. So if you’ve been going around with a person who’s either making grand gestures for you or tempting you to commit to them, you should watch out for these signs to know if you’re dating a serial dater!
02/7Serial daters like to have prolonged dates early on
Now, this one isn’t just subjected to serial daters. Of course, people who are emotionally available and relationship-oriented also like to spend hours with their partners. But what we’re specifying is that serial daters often tend to depend on drawn-out dates so that they get a chance to woo you and have all your attention. They will want to know that they’ve hooked you to them so in their eyes, the sooner you fall, the better it is for them.
03/7Serial daters will randomly go off the grid
This means, the guy who’s been texting you every single day will suddenly disappear on you. And when he comes back, he will end up giving a dramatic excuse that you can’t be mad at. If this keeps happening a lot of times, you should know they like to use drama as a way to win your sympathy.
04/7Serial daters will put out all the stops
Many people love the idea of grand romantic gestures. But serial daters end up doing things on repeat because they know which chords to strike to sweep you off of your feet. They’re not going to go slow and will very much build a friendship with you while wooing you. They will make every date very dramatic and grand from the very beginning with all flowers, hearts, slow dances and all that jazz.
05/7Serial daters will like to make you jealous
Many people like to use jealousy as a means to feel better about themselves. Trying to make someone jealous isn’t healthy at all, sometimes it might even backfire. But serial daters like to see that you care if they are successful at making you even a little jealous.
06/7Serial daters choose their sentences carefully
Now these people aren’t the ordinary charmers. Serial daters are the ones to make grandiose statements like “I’ve never opened up to anyone like this before,” “I’ve never felt so serious about anyone until now”. They might even say, “I was a player before you entered my life”. They will make sure they never talk about the long term with you or even show their vulnerable side to you. If they give you mixed-signals, you are very much dating a serial dater.
07/7Serial daters are the ones to leave their exes
If you really sit this person down and ask them how their last couple of relationships ended, you will realize that they were the ones to leave their exes. Someone who ends relationships quickly might have a lack of problem-solving skills. But someone who does this on a regular basis will have a pattern that they will end up continuing for a long time.