If your reason of break up was one of this, you can consider getting back together
Relationships aren’t perfect, nor are they always exciting or romantic. It has its complications, yet we tend to fall in love and get drawn to the idea of being with someone special. Many a times or rather, most of the time, it doesn’t work out. While some have the patience to get over a serious situation, others break up for the most trivial of reasons.
Sometimes, in a fit of rage, we’re so overshadowed by the petty wrongs that our partners have committed that we fail to see the positive sides of our relationship. One must understand that love can be demanding. It can be challenging too, but that does not mean, we catch the first train to the break-up land, without giving it a second thought. If you’re breaking up, do it for the right reasons. So to help you ease out the process and for those of you who have already broken up, here are 8 reasons you shouldn’t have broken up for.
02/9You needed time
Well, time is what everyone needs but should it be a reason for someone to break up? Absolutely not. Being together all the time can take a toll on every relationship, not just yours. It can be exhausting and can even turn monotonous. But to call it quits on the basis of something so natural like time, is an excuse rather than a reason.
03/9You were still hung up on your toxic ex
Many a times, good relationships end because one is still hung up on their toxic ex. The thought of your ex haunts you so much so that you fail to accept or believe the love your present partner showers on you. While you haven’t had a pleasant experience of a romantic relationship in the past, it doesn’t mean you should deprive yourself of the love that’s right in front of you.
04/9Fear of commitment
Love can be frightening. It can demand so much from you and yet give nothing in return. There’s always the fear of gaining too less and losing too much. But sometimes, even when you know you’ve met the right person, who is ready to give you all the happiness in life, the fear of commitment and of loss stops you from giving it a chance.
05/9You felt you were missing out on a lot of other things
When you’re in a relationship, seldom, you feel that you’re missing out on a lot of action in life. Swiping through your friend’s pictures on social media or hearing about people travelling around the world, makes you question your own existence in the world. But this should not be the reason for a break up. You can always take some time off and explore what you feel is lacking in your life.
06/9Your career was at its heights
Work and relationships don’t really go well together, especially when you’re at the peak of your career. But leaving your partner for the same can be too hasty a decision. There’s always a way to maintain a balance between your work and love life. If you successfully build that balance, not only will you reach your goals but will also have someone to celebrate it with.
07/9You were not happy
One of the simplest reasons to break up is to say that you’re not happy. As easy as it is to say so, it is as hard to locate the reasons for your unhappiness and instead of dumping it all on your relationship, try sorting it out with your partner and finding a solution for it together. Don’t just ignore all the effort your partner has put in to make this relationship work.
08/9The petty disagreements were a lot to handle
Every relationship goes through a rough patch, but it should never be an excuse to end a relationship. If you broke up with your partner on the basis of petty arguments and disagreements, then it sure was your ego rather than your depleting love for them. One must learn to differentiate between the two and engage in discussing the root of the problem.
09/9The ‘honeymoon’ phase was over
Of course, every relationship begins on a beautiful note, but the fact that the romance will diminish with time is a reality that everyone must accept. With time, ones imperfections and flaws start becoming visible, but instead of making it a reason to leave them, try and accept it as a part of the process. This will not only bring back the charm in your relationship, but will keep you contented.