It is evident and proven, that a balanced diet is a key to the normal and healthy functioning of the physical body. Similarly, a balanced relationship is extremely essential for our emotional and mental well-being. When we talk about relationships, initially, it’s all hearts and roses. We are so blinded by love that we commit and dedicate all of ourselves into building a beautiful space. Little do we know, that with time, change is the only constant and that there’s more to a relationship than one can comprehend.
As hard as it may seem, building and maintaining a balanced relationship is not that difficult a task. What it needs is patience and a mix of everything at the right moment of time. You can never engage in too much of something or too less of nothing. Here’s how you can build a balance in your relationship and maintain a stable connection with your partner.
Commit but don’t compromise
It’s a positive gesture to commit and dedicate your time and yourself to a relationship. It makes your bond with your partner stronger and more trustworthy. But sometimes, too much of commitment can paralyze your ability to want and wish for something else. You might want to invest your time meeting your friends or engaging in a solo trip, but just because you chose to commit, you might have to compromise. This may seem healthy in the beginning, but with time it will surely become a burden and strain your mental health.
Communicate instead of complaining
The most important factor in a relationship is communication. It’s a two-way process, i.e. talking and listening. So, It is very important to not just talk it out but also listen sincerely. If there is something that is troubling you, instead of complaining every day and making excuses to nag your partner, making it a point to convey your message through communication. This can be productive and it’ll surely provide you with a healthy solution.
Two ways of looking at control
Control in a relationship can have a positive and a negative aspect to it. Trying to control your partner or your relationship may result in suppressed tension, that may have a damaging outburst. You may take control of situations and determine your role whenever or wherever it’s needed, but if it goes on to limit your partner’s freedom and individuality, it might become a problem.
Consult or ask for help but be independent
Your partner is someone you can always rely on. Sharing your problems, consulting or even asking for help in times of trouble is always a good step towards a better bond with your partner. However, you should hold or check yourself when casual consulting becomes an incurable disease of dependency. If you become too dependent on someone, you’re not only limiting yourself from growing but also restricting your partner from concentrating on other things.
Maintain and respect each other’s individuality
Individuality is something that is personal and special. When it comes to a relationship, seldom goes the saying “two bodies, one soul.” But how true is it? Once you start invading each other’s personal space, you overstep on each other’s individuality. It is very important to maintain and respect yours and your partner’s uniqueness. Only then will you be content with the relationship.
By – TIMESOFINDIA.COM