Trying to pull a first move on a church girl you like? Here are the perfect tips for you!
1. Don’t try to flash things at her
No one is saying that Christian ladies and church girls don’t like nice things. Just don’t try to make that the major pulling force. Women in church are repeatedly taught to not base their attraction on material things, and that men who try to flash these things usually have nothing more to offer.
Don’t fall into the trap of being misunderstood. Show more of your essence first. They always like that.
2. She wants to know you see more than her beauty
If you have been to church recently, you’ll know that even there, ladies dress really nice, and do their best to look their best.
However, they don’t want to be seen as that only. So don’t approach her talking ONLY about how beautiful she is and all that. Observe her closely enough to get something else to compliment about her than her looks.
3. Don’t be too serious
Don’t be fooled into thinking serious stuff and bible verses is all you will use to make an impression when you are talking to a church girl for the first time.
Why? Because no matter how spiritual you are, a woman has to feel good and comfortable around you.
Be witty, be humorous, be intelligent and know your way around secular subjects too. Because they like Jesus doesn’t mean they don’t have a sense of humour or don’t like to have a good laugh.
4. Don’t cramp her space
This is a rule of thumb which applies to every woman, whether she spends more of her time in church or in the club.
When you are talking to a lady you like for the very first time, be the first to leave the conversation. Keep it short and simple. Keep her interested in talking to you some other time. You can come back to her, but give her space at first.
5. The truth and nothing else
This is exactly as it is. Be truthful and honest with the jump. This is not a requirement limited to when you are talking to church woman only.