10 real reasons you’re single
Too many people feel like they’re sentenced to a lifetime of loneliness and singlehood.They see themselves as failures because they haven’t found the one or have found...
Dear men, here’s how to tell when your woman is having orgasm during sex
When it comes to sex, many, if not most, people would love to orgasm. Whether or not orgasm is part of your sexual experience.Many...
You don’t need cash, wedding gowns and expensive rings to marry – Eastwood Anaba
The founder of the Eastwood Anaba Ministries, Reverend Eastwood Anaba Ministries, has advised the youth against exorbitant and flamboyant marriage ceremonies.The international preacher is...
‘I’m raging about boyfriend’s camping trip with female pal and her very hot friend’
Dear ColeenMy boyfriend has a really good female best friend who he’s known since they were kids.They grew up next door to each other...
She dated me for over six months so she can have access to running water
I found her at a workshop and fell in love with her. Her eloquence and poise had the best of me so I went...
5 reasons eye contact is important during sex
Being in love and staying in love sometimes sterns from the way one's intimate life is maintained.It is hard to keep relationships these days...
‘My twin sister is marrying my childhood bully – I refuse to go to the wedding’
If you endured bullying throughout your childhood, how would you feel if one of your close family members began a relationship with your bully and ended...
‘I opened door to hubby wearing underwear and heels – Am I coming on too strong?’
Dear ColeenMy husband and I have been together for nine years and went through a rocky patch recently after he admitted to becoming “over-friendly”...
5 signs he feels guilty for hurting you
If he hurt you and feels bad about it, he may feel like he owes you.As the popular saying goes, ‘ action speaks louder...
Why I’m anti-marriage but pro-wedding
I went to a wedding in Philadelphia with my girlfriend, Lorri. She was a bridesmaid, which meant I shared in the full complement of...
What to do when you’re wrongly accused of cheating
Anyone can feel a little jealous or insecure at times. However, most can keep their feelings in check and not react when they feel secure within...
Without foreplay, men are like footballers who get injured during warm up – Ebo Whyte
Playwright, Author and Motivational Speaker, Uncle Ebo Whyte, has advised that it is key to have foreplay during sex.The playwright cum Motivational Speaker on...
How tantric sex can spice up your sex life
Tantric sex might be what you need to spice up your sex life.Tantric sex comes from ancient Hindu practices of tantra. Pornography paints sex...
I use magic cream to attract men – Sex worker reveals
Not all that glitters is gold, so if you get your orgasm from commercial sex workers, you may want to rethink your source of...
The 10 seconds that ended my 20-year marriage
It’s August in Northern Virginia, hot and humid. I still haven’t showered from my morning trail run. I’m wearing my stay-at-home-mom uniform — oversized Marine Corps...
I found true love while on a Tinder date with another man
It was the first night of the NBA Finals, and I was meeting some friends at a sports bar. Since my friends knew some...
I deeply resented my ‘unromantic’ husband — until this a-ha moment
I always wanted a scavenger hunt. You know, the kind where my partner would leave little notes and gifts, maybe rope some of my...
10 big differences between ‘nice guys’ and ‘good men’
Good men finish FIRST. We’ve all heard the adage that “nice guys finish last,” and to be honest, it’s usually true. But the big...
Male nipple: Tips to play with nipple for orgasm
Male nipples are often overlooked when it comes to sex but they play a very important role.Nipples! People of all genders have them, but...
Reasons you fall for the same type of guy over and over again
Creating a great relationship can be one of the most fun and exhilarating experiences you will ever go through, but getting there is the...
The best part of being single is knowing nobody is cheating on you
The first time I was ever aware of being cheated on, I didn’t care that much. As relationships go, ours was still relatively new and I...
This is why revenge cheating on your unfaithful partner isn’t a bad idea
Revenge cheating aka retaliatory infidelity is one of the ways to deal with an unfaithful partner and this is why it's worth considering.People react...
My rich husband thought I’d never leave but I did
“Why would you leave the Golden Goose?” my husband asked. I had gone to him and told him it felt lonely being married to...
10 ways the right person will love you
My husband and I are high school sweethearts. We’ve been together for 22 years and married for 14. Some might say we’re total opposites....
‘A new man who just joined our birdwatching group is eyeing up my wife’
Dear ColeenI’ve been married to my wife for 11 years and like most couples, we’ve been through both ups and downs but have largely...
‘My friend is getting married next month – but I just found her on a dating app’
In the age of online dating, having a profile on a dating app while you're in a relationship isn't automatically a sign of anything malicious - especially if the...
‘I’ve just got married but I think I’ve made the biggest mistake of my life’
Dear ColeenI’ve made a terrible mistake by getting married to my long-term partner and I now want out, even though we only walked down...
My ex-boyfriend would track me and watch me sleep
I never thought I would fall in love with an abuser. I thought if an abuser walked into my life, I would know. But,...
Here’s what it means to be scared of sex and what to do
Sexual anxiety or worry is by no means uncommon. They can range from small insecurities about body image to larger concerns around sexual performance.The...
5 mistakes women make on first dates
First dates are so important.First dates are the make or break point in most budding romantic relationships. You know what they say, you never...
I went to a brothel with my boyfriend; it was nothing like what I expected
My boyfriend, Rod, is passionately kissing another woman. Little fingers of jealousy squeeze my insides, and I’m not sure where to look or what...
‘I recently started dating a really great guy…but he’s in an open marriage’
Dear ColeenI’m a woman in my early 30s and recently started seeing a really great guy, who admitted on our first date that he...
‘I paid for our flat, IVF and my own engagement ring – my ex now says I owe him’
When it comes to modern relationships, lots of partners like to go Dutch on expenses, paying half for almost everything, or taking turns to...
The night my date took me to a prostitute hotel
“I’m going to give you some nooky, so get ready,” I teased Alex over the phone.He sighed with relief. Alex and I had been...
A heart so full, her chipped teeth were an afterthought
By then, the pair had been getting to know each other for about six months.They met in August 2017, when Ms Friedell, 32,...
If you’ve been in failed talking stages, you will relate to these 5 things
Another talking stage in the bag but no relationship in sight. Well done.If you are still in the dating or talking stage then I...
Do women need to wear underwear?
Should you embrace the relief of wearing nothing underneath or is it much better to wear underwear?There are some good arguments for and against...
Things no one tells you about sex after marriage
Sex before marriage and after marriage can be very different.Is it the same act? Yes, but how we feel, perceive our partner, changes.There...
7 types of men who seem great, but actually make relationships miserable
As men, we play different roles in our life: friend, brother, co-worker, neighbour, etc. But, some roles take on a toxic life of their own, especially when...
‘I’m having the most mind-blowing sex with my boyfriend… since we split up’
Dear Coleen, my boyfriend and I split up a couple of months ago – but with the view that we both needed a break and that the...