'I left Egypt because of my curly hair'
Eman El-Deeb, a young Egyptian woman, decided to leave her country in 2016. But it wasn't for education, work or a partner. It was...
Yenbo Nkommo: Trust, a thorny issue in relationships
Placing one's confidence in someone or something is a fundamental human experience, necessary for society to function and for any person to be relatively...
The big deal about the big “O”
Why do women have orgasms? This is one of the big puzzles of evolutionary psychology. The purpose of male orgasm seems perfectly plain to...
How to keep your smartphone from hurting your relationships
By 2016, 77 percent of U.S. adults owned a smartphone. Although they’re just small rectangular objects in our pockets, smartphones are leading to significant...
Dating after #MeToo: I've had a lot of sex out of politeness. How do I say no?
Dating is different in the post-#MeToo era, and Jean Hannah Edelstein is here to help you navigate it in her pop-up advice column.
Send your...
Yenbo Nkomo: Traits men look out for in women for marriage
Many men and women tend to date all kinds of people at some point in their lives, but when it comes to choosing a...
When I was a virgin: Adom News reporter writes about her intriguing first night of sex
Growing up, my mom made up very horrific and scary stories about sex and its consequences. Can you imagine she told me God puts...
Video: Man abandons wife for giving birth to girls
The pressure to give birth to sons rather than daughters can be overwhelming and sometimes heartbreaking.
But such backward cultural bias against female babies which...
The 5 different types of cheating explained
All cheating is not created equal.
Ask 10 people what “counts” as cheating and you’d probably get 100 different answers. “Infidelity is a gray area...
How your jealousy drives your partner away
In previous postings, I have indicated that it is not abnormal to have feelings of jealousy and to sometimes feel anxious and angry with...
After the reckoning: #MeToo, sex and dating in 2018
A college student carefully considers which fraternity houses to avoid when she’s going out with her roommates. An engaged 30-something grapples with behavior she...
This is why Ugandan President want to ban oral sex
Ugandan President has said he wants to ban the nation's citizens from practicing oral sex because 'the mouth is for eating'.
Ugandan President Yoweri Museveni...
3 reasons intimacy might feel too dangerous for you
Regardless of whether you’re aware of it, any relationship you enter into will make you question how vulnerable you can be. And in the...
‘Alone time’ is essential to healthy relationships
When we think about the phrase “intimate relationship,” we usually think about the presence of intimacy between two people.
Intimacy is about transparency, authenticity, and...
A date who shares no personal information can be dangerous
Dating smart involves gauging chemistry and compatibility, as well as separating the safe from the suspicious. Although the vast majority of daters are respectful...
If you say this during an apology, you’re doing it wrong
The difference between a sincere apology and cheap one has a lot to do with how it’s phrased. Word to the wise: If you...
Is marriage ruining your sex life?
A divorce lawyer shares how you're probably missing the mark and how to fix it.
As a divorce lawyer, I meet a lot of married...
Wife throws huge wedding for husband as he marries a second wife
Below are pictures of a lady whom a social media report stated that she threw a huge wedding ceremony for her husband and his...
Photo: Lady dumps boyfriend for not allowing her pay for anything
A South African lady, Umm Eesah, has written on how she dumped her fiance.
She dumped him for always insisting on paying for everything whenever...
Couples in successful, lasting relationships know these 7 things
Relationships take more than just love.
On a recent plane trip home, I queued up my Netflix download of Chris Rock’s most recent comedy special, Tambourine. If...
What every woman needs to know about married men who cheat
I’ve written about my experience as “the mistress.” It was a much-read post that unleashed both an outpouring of emotional stories and unbridled fury...
8 people reveal why they stopped being sexually attracted to their partners
At this point, you should know that sex isn't the only reason to be in a relationship with someone.
But sex is a big component...
9 signs your relationship isn’t worth fighting for
No one said relationships were easy ― even the strongest couples will inevitably hit a few bumps in the road. But your partner shouldn’t...
When life frowns on you
The night stood so long. Longer than all my years spent on this planet. It was all quiet. The only sound I could hear...
Woman with four partners explains how relationship works
With a husband, fiancé and two boyfriends to boot, Mary Crumpton isn't part of what could be described as a traditional, nuclear family.
However, the...
Wash your wives’ panties when they can’t – Rev Minister
The Rev. Minister of the Presbyterian Church of Ghana, Mount Zion Congregation in Odorkor, Jonathan Akwetey Abbey, says married men who refuse to wash...
8 women on what it's like to get back together with a cheating ex
Being cheated on can be utterly heartbreaking. It affects your self-worth, self-esteem and it can be very hard not to feel like it's your fault. And...
A man’s view: How important is sex in a relationship?
The importance of sex in a healthy relationship cannot be understated. Well, mostly.
See, as a guy, it’s definitely one of the most important things...
Why is he ignoring my texts all of a sudden?
No one wants to be ignored via text, especially when it’s a guy we like. But what does it mean when he stars ignoring...
A man’s view: How important is sex in a relationship?
The importance of sex in a healthy relationship cannot be understated. Well, mostly.
See, as a guy, it’s definitely one of the most important things...
Men prefer younger women, regardless of their age – Study confirms
It’s one of the few age-old sexual stereotypes based on scientifically-proven fact: heterosexual men prefer younger women, regardless of their own age.
However, a new...
7 ways to deal with jealousy in relationships
Jealousy in a relationship has made for some of the best songs of all time (who among us hasn't drunkenly scream-sang the words to...
How to get out of the friend zone in 6 easy steps
THE FEMALE POINT OF VIEW: The Mysterious Case Of Friend-Zone.
It starts as it always does. You meet a cute girl and start hanging out...
Husband files for divorce after DNA test reveals 4 out of 6 children are not his
• A Malawian man has revealed to his family that DNA results have confirmed four of his six children are not his
• The man...
Love, sex, relationships and the brain
The qualities of true, romantic love have inspired playwrights, poets, and philosophers throughout the ages.
Love is an ideal; an inspiration — a feeling of...
11 ways he subconsciously proves his true, undying love for you
Wondering if your significant other is really in love with you and not just reaping the benefits of your company? Some men just are...
Sex or love – Ways to know where your partner falls
Sometimes, we mistake mere physical attraction for emotional attachment. A lot of time we might not even realize that love is not the only...
I’ll never forgive myself for cheating on my girlfriend with her best friend
I slept with my girlfriend’s best friend and I hid it for years. There, I said it. Now, the old saying ‘the truth always...
5 ways to know if your partner is in the relationship only for sex and not for love
Sometimes, we mistake mere physical attraction for emotional attachment. A lot of time we might not even realise that love is not the only...
What it’s like to date an older man at 17, then marry him
I actually was 16, almost 17, and I started working at a restaurant. I was hired as a hostess, and he was a server....