Gospel musician Empress Gifty has shared her deeply personal experience of going through a divorce and the mental anguish that comes with it.
In a video posted on Instagram on April 1, 2025, she revealed that divorce can feel like a “nightmare” and is one of the most painful experiences anyone can go through.
She opened up about how the emotional toll of a divorce can extend to future relationships, especially when the new partner is younger.
“You can’t imagine the trauma one endures during a divorce. It feels like you’re starting over with your life,” she shared. “It becomes even more difficult if, after the divorce, you end up with a younger man. Your family may disrespect him, and your friends might ridicule him, making it uncomfortable for you both.”
Empress Gifty further emphasized that marrying an older man brings a sense of security.
Using her own marriage as an example, she expressed that she feels safe and confident when she is with her current husband, especially in public.
“When the man is older, you feel secure. With my husband, I feel at ease because if anyone crosses a line, I know he’s there to stand up for me,” she added.
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