- life-changing sex resolutions you must take this year
Even though the thought of a passionate moment in bed is exciting, after some time the heated up levels start dipping. Monotony in bed is a big issue and most couples succumb to it easily. But experiments in bed can solve the problem to a great extent. One needs to keep reviving the sexual intimacy over and over again to keep the adventure quotient up. As we just started a new year, here are a few sex resolutions you must undertake to keep your intimacy alive.
- Decide to have more sex
As crazy as it must sound, decide a routine to have sex. Though it sounds mechanical, it sometimes helps in maintaining intimacy. Skin contact is important to excite the release of norepinephrine in the brain and so if you have a sex routine, things will fall in place.
- Read erotica
The process of sexual attraction starts in the brain and hence one needs to feel stimulated mentally. Try doing activities that stimulate your brain together. Read erotica, watch adult films, cook food or join a dance class together. This might also open up new experiments you would love to explore together.
- Try a new corner in the house
Monotony is boring. Sometimes, we do not realize but the culprit is the environment around. Why do you think the sex scenes in most movies are shot at places other than the bedroom? It is erotic and exciting. Try your living room area or kitchen, try a new corner in the house and see how it helps to keep the excitement level up all through.
- Try a new position
Though your favorite sex position can be satisfying, it also turns boring after repeated encounters. Discuss with your partner and try a new position you would love to explore. Bringing a new angle to your sex life can surely jazz up things in bed!
- Be spontaneous
Getting kissed unaware is definitely exciting and memorable. Ditch the regular and try going spontaneous when it comes to sexual activities. Try it out in your car’s backseat, kiss under a moonlight, take a chance in the balcony or share a sensuous moment at a party. Going spontaneous can sweep your partner off his/ her feet!
- Avoid distractions
A study confirms that the use of phone before falling asleep is affecting the sexual life of 35% of the Americans and India is not far behind. The quality time that you must be spending with your partner in bed before sleeping is the time most of us are spending on phones. Avoid any such distractions and focus only on your better half. It is time to take this resolution seriously.
- Make your bedroom sex-ready
From choosing a deep color to putting up exotic pictures instead of family pictures, you can modify a lot of things in your bedroom to make it a place of passion. Make use of aromatic candles and keep your room clutter-free. The room must look inviting and sensuous to generate excitement in your minds.