Being in a toxic relationship is not an easy task. Most of us want to get out of toxic work life, friendships and also relationships. However, when it comes to relationships, one needs to understand if the habits are actually toxic. A lot of times we end up objectifying common habits and tendencies. After all, no relationship is perfect and sometimes all it needs is some time and introspection. While most of us want things to be rosy and romantic all the time, which in reality is not practical to achieve. We have listed six common and healthy habits in a relationship, that you might consider toxic:
Hurting each other’s feelings
Sometimes, you and your partner can hurt each other’s feelings. There are times when you have to tell your partner the truth, they don’t want to hear. Instead of having a fake and pretentious relationship, it’s important, to be honest. If your partner gives you his/her honest opinion, it’s okay to be hurt, but it’s normal for the partner to maintain transparency.
Avoiding conflicts
A lot of people want to avoid hasty arguments, which is normal and healthy. You need to understand that everything can’t be resolved by talking. Some conflicts just happen and can’t be resolved. It’s okay to ignore a few conflicts, rather than arguing and hurting each other any more. As they say, some battles are not worth fighting. All you need to know is it worth fighting or not!
Not accepting the flaws
The reality of every relationship is that no one is perfect. Everyone has flaws and imperfections, the sooner we accept, the better. If your partner accepts you with all your flaws, even you should. Ignoring a few shortcomings can bring you guys closer than ever.
Taking some space
In this chaotic life, humans can’t only focus on their partner. Everyone needs to take some time off and even from a relationship. You can’t always be the escape zone for your partner. Occasionally, spending time apart is normal, which will only make your relationship healthy in future. If you or your partner wants to spend some time away, then it’s okay. From old hobbies to a trip with friends, spending some time away can help to bring back the spark.
Feeling attracted to someone else
As much as we’d like to believe that we can have attraction only for our significant other, biology says otherwise. It’s okay to find other people attractive, as it’s a biological inevitability. Once we get past the honeymoon phase, it’s okay to feel attracted to each other. Liking someone is inevitable and to act on it is our choice always!