Do you ever wonder if your current relationship will last? It is a question that a lot of people have, but are not quite sure how to answer. If you can relate to the twelve signs we are about to share with you, your relationship has a good chance of withstanding the test of time. Starting with the number one sign below:
You’re Not Just a Couple, You’re Best Friends
This is one that you have probably heard before. Couples that last the longest are usually best friends. Sometimes when couples have been together so long you may not notice that they are a couple because they act like best friends. If you are in the early stages of a relationship, don’t worry, you still have time to become best friends!
You Each Have Separate Lives
Even though it is important to be best friends, it is equally important to have things that you do by yourself. Whether that is your academics, career, or even a hobby, it is important to have things that you do by yourself. This will give you valuable time apart that is crucial to maintaining a relationship for extended amounts of time.
You Agree on The Important Stuff
You do not have to agree with your partner on everything, but you do need to agree on the important stuff. It is important that you are on the same page when it comes to the big goals and values in your life. Being on the same page with these things predicts longevity in the relationship.
You Know When To Break Out Of The Routine
Getting into a routine is the safe thing to do, but it can get boring fast. Knowing when to change things up for your relationship to break the routine can help make the relationship last longer because you will avoid unnecessary frustrations. This includes, going on a date in a different place than usual, or maybe not talking on the phone all the time. Try new things!
You’re Comfortable Talking About Sex
We don’t mean that you are comfortable talking about the little things. We mean you are comfortable talking about the big things that may even sometimes be uncomfortable. Being comfortable with this makes the relationship stronger.
Arguments Do Not Tear You Apart
This one sounds crazy, but when you and your partner are in it for the long run, arguments actually bring you together. You know that you may be angry, but it won’t last forever.
You Support Each Other
When one partner is having success, the other is ecstatic for them. This is the behavior of long-term couples because they are genuinely happy for the other’s success.
Bad Days Will Happen
Bad days will happen and you both realize this. Maybe you even have a code warning word so that the other person knows to steer clear or be extra supportive, depending on your mood.
Time Doesn’t Make You Grow Apart
When a relationship is really going to last, time will make the two of you grow closer. This is a tricky one to grasp, but with the right elements of a relationship, it is sure to happen.
Your Life is Better With the Other Person
In relationships that stand the test of time, you will realize that your life is better with the person. This means that your life is better with them in it, which sounds cliche but will be true.
You Can Talk About Doubt
It is ok to have doubts. They are bound to happen in a long-term relationship. When you have reached this stage in the relationship, you will feel comfortable discussing with each other, even if it is scary. At the end of the day, you will realize you had no reason to worry.
You Look Forward to the Future
Looking forward to the future is something that you will definitely experience when you find the right person. We don’t mean the next holiday, but big life events.